how to live life to the fullest (acc. to a 90 yr old woman)

found something worth reading on the net. it's about how we could celebrate life so that there're less matters to regret

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio .

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 42 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short – enjoy it..

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.

9. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

10. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

11. It's OK to let your children see you cry.



12. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

13. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it...

14 Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

15. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

16. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

17. It's never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.

18. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

19. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

20. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

21. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

22. The most important sex organ is the brain.

23. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

24. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

25. Always choose life.

26. Forgive but don’t forget.

27. What other people think of you is none of your business.

28. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

30. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does..

31. Believe in miracles.

32. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

33. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

34. Your children get only one childhood.

35. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

36. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

37. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

38. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have not what you need.

39. The best is yet to come...

40. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

41. Yield.

42. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

baca bila leka dunia: peringatan utk wanita

kadang2 bila asyik dgn dunia aku jd leka, lupa diri yg dunia hanya tempat singgah. maka tika itu memo mcm bwh ni sangat sangat penting utk aku sedar diri

*Rasulullah menjawab, "Wahai putriku, adapun mereka yang tergantung rambutnya hingga otaknya mendidih adalah wanita yang tidak menutup rambutnya sehingga terlihat oleh laki-laki yang bukan muhrimnya. 

*Perempuan yang digantung susunya adalah istri yang 'mengotori' tempat tidurnya. 

*Perempuan yang tergantung kedua kakinya ialah perempuan yang tidak taat kepada suaminya, ia keluar rumah tanpa izin suaminya, dan perempuan yang tidak mau mandi suci dari haid dan nifas. 

*Perempuan yang memakan badannya sendiri ialah karena ia berhias untuk lelaki yang bukan muhrimnya dan suka mengumpat orang lain.

*Perempuan yang memotong badannya sendiri dengan gunting api neraka karena ia memperkenalkan dirinya kepada orang yang kepada orang lain bersolek dan berhias supaya kecantikannya dilihat laki-laki yang bukan muhrimnya. 

*Perempuan yang diikat kedua kaki dan tangannya ke atas ubun-ubunnya diulurkan ular dan kalajengking padanya karena ia boleh shalat tapi tidak mengamalkannya dan tidak mau mandi junub. 

*Perempuan yang kepalanya seperti babi dan badannya seperti himar ialah tukang umpat dan pendusta. Perempuan yang menyerupai anjing ialah perempuan yang suka memfitnah dan membenci suami."

Mendengar itu, Sayidina Ali dan Fatimah Az-Zahra pun turut menangis. 
Dan inilah peringatan kepada kaum perempuan. 

sumber: an FB status

rambut kaler kaler

kadang2 timbul rasa keinginan di hati nk kaler2 rambut. delete that. dh lama gila berangan nk dye my hair. cm shantek ja warna warni tu kan. sbb sdr diri kulit celup milo, takdelahnya mau kaler teruk2. just higlights here and there and voila...

paling mild. sembunyi2 gitew. okla xobvious mana

like, seriously fun!!! 

the color and the cut. harus drool

tp teringin je la, xpnh buat pon. sbbnya, selama ni aku berpegang yang kaler rambut tu mcm merubah kejadian tuhan, maka hukumnya haroooom.

tp pastu dengar2 hukumnya dibolehkan KALAU suami suruh. wah wah wah...kalau dh berlaki haruslah aku pengaruh laki suruh aku dye my mane kn. ngn dia2 skali aku hasut. kaler midnight blue, woot woot so syeksyee

hmm ye ke boleh camtu? kn ada kt pasaran color rambut yg halal suma. tambah lagi, terma 'merubah kejadian' pun aku da jadi 50-50. adakah color rambut tu sememangnya jatuh dlm konsep itu?, sbb berinai di rambut kn dibolehkan.

then recently ustaz mutalib (utaz plg glamer kt rantau Sbrg Perai ni) in his kuliyyah touched about this: (kesimpulan yg boleh dibuat pasal kaler rambut)

haram sbb ia menghalang air dari sampai ke helaian rambut.

kalo a touch je? fine. kalo highlight je mestila xganggu perjalanan air utk sapu kt kepala tu kn, tetapi.................sbg manusia normal, haruslah ada time2 kita berhadas besar. nk nk ladies. monthly tu sah2 makcik bloody mary dtg melawat. so mmg regular la kewajiban bersuci besar ni. i dunno bout guys but, in my limited knowledge, they easily terberhadas besar when they get excited (read: hard on. opps)

jadi. janganlah berasa mandi hadas kau sah, badan kau suci kalau ada part of your body yg tak kena air hatta sehelai rambut. sangat berat kot mende neh. kalo xsuci sah2 solat tiang-agama-tinggal-1kali-80tahun-siksaan itu sia2 ja.



baiklah, persoalan yang mahu ditimbulkan di sini ialah:
1) ada tak brand kaler rambut yg sure pasti punya air boleh telus

kalau ada bagitau please. nk grab 1 laju2

oh btw. melayu rambut karat ialah burok. rs cm nk simbah cat

apa menatang bX-l4u1mh tuh

ialah error utk edit blogger layout [ala yg ada 'favicon' kt atas tu]

e.g: harini aku nk add new reading list bertajuk 'resipi' utk menghumban segala e-buku rujukan resipiku.
tapi yg kuaq hanyalah bendalah kod atas tu, sambey dia soh buat aduan atau ushar discussion kt Blogger Support / Blogger Help Group.
bila check2, masalah ni ramai dh adu, tapi masih takdak penyelesaian.

jadi, penyelesaian jangka pendek yg telah di ambil ialah dgn humban buku resipi ke list

'services cambest'

bley?

mental note: da fix nanti sila add the intended reading list. okey, self?




tula dulu2 ko dok ikut blog2 resipi tuh xmo buat kumpulan dia awai2. dh depa kna mnyibok kt group org len. kesyian kt depe (gaya utara fail ckp key elle)